Processing Pain in the Face of Change

Change is an inevitable part of life and it’s also about the only guarantee you'll ever get - even death in its absolute term doesn't seem to be an issue anymore and perhaps a positive outcome from the current recession could be that new currency's for barter and trade manifest, eliminating the need for taxes (you never know and never say never). So sometimes change can be perceived as beautiful and fun and exciting... and other times it seems like it’s going to be the end of the world... or at least life as you know it.

And thats the kind of change that is happening all around us right now. It's the ‘good luck, bad luck’ story... sometimes when things seem negative and bad, they're really very positive and sometimes when things seem good, they turn out to be really quite challenging.

Think of all those times in life where you thought you were onto a good thing only to find out it didn't work out as you'd hoped it would. And other times when things seemed like you wouldn't be able to pull through... and then you did... and you grew stronger and wiser and ultimately more peaceful for it.

These are the times we live in... as we always have... but now these times come and go quicker. They seem more intense and they make bigger changes and have greater implications than ever before. We are making way for a new world and in this new world we are more peaceful, way more relaxed and way, way more loving and trusting. Open your heart chakra and move through the pain you may be experiencing. Let it be there. Know it is teaching you something beautiful right now, however painful it may be, you are learning, growing and evolving.

Know also that some people will come with you as you pass through into this new world. And others will refuse to see the changes... and they won't change. They will remain in their hard, rigid world with their closed off hearts and their un-accepting ways. So they won't come with you. The new world can only be its beautiful, new, lighter vibration with people that will accept change... and with people that are operating from their hearts, not their heads.

No matter how hard you try, you cannot intellectualize love and creativity. And it is love and creativity upon which the new world is built. So if changes are occurring in your life right now that appear to be taking love out of your life, just step back for a moment and you will find that what is actually happening is that the Universe is shifting her beautiful vibration to one of co-creation and love – your world is opening up for more love. Be in your flow, see the good and breathe your way through the pain. It’s ok... no matter what you think you are losing along the way. For loss is only a perception. You are already whole and complete... and there is always plenty of room for improvement too.

Be certain that you are making all the changes you can. Be sure you are letting go of old perspectives that no longer serve you. Be sure that you are dropping heavy, denser vibrational energy. Be sure that you are open minded and open hearted and be prepared to be wrong. Letting go is one of the hardest challenges. But the old way will no longer serve you. If it is always hard and challenging to put your plans into effect, then the plans you are making and the thoughts you are having are not in alignment with what you are trying to achieve… OR, you are not in alignment with what you are trying to achieve. Which way round is it? If you are trying to manifest something with old vibrational patterns, then it won’t work If you are trying to manifest something with love, then it will… and it will happen easily. Be in your flow. Be in your love.

The only thing you will take with you when you leave your physical body is the light essence of the love and creation that is you. If a skin encapsulated ego cannot see through your physical limitations, then step into your God Self and BE from there. If they still cannot see the light essence of the love and creation that is you, then they are not living from their God Self. Forgiveness is vital and imperative to moving on. As is acceptance. Forgive others for their own challenges and misgivings. And above all forgive yourself. Then accept the changes that are occurring right now… they are occurring for a reason that you may not see the Higher Purpose of just yet… but there is bound to be one. You are bound to succeed… if you find your flow and be in your flow.

I know life can be painful and it can seem so incredibly unfair at times too. But the great Law of Impermanence says that "This too will pass." So let it arise, and let it pass. Take the learning and the truth that comes from it and just know that you are growing and evolving and that there is no such thing as a mistake... only lessons not learned. Learn the lesson. And move on. If it’s a relationship break-up that causing the pain, know that this is one of life’s hardest challenges. Some of us put ourselves through it more than a few times. Learn the lesson. Find the common denominator and see the light through the pain - for you are the common denominator in all your life experiences. Therefore you also have the power to create change. Change doesn’t have to just happen to you. You are the creator and now more than ever before you have the power to create the life you want to live.

So open your eyes, open your heart and open your mind. If you are living from your mind, then drop down into your heart. If your eyes are closed and you can’t see beyond your own stuff, then open them and see that there are millions of people worse off than you are. Be your light. Love yourself. You are the most important person in your Universe. Without you, your Universe does not exist. Look after you. Love you. BE YOU. Be LOVE. And as you do, this will flow out into the world and create a new world based on love.

Imagine if we all lived and loved as if each day were the last… but we planned as if we were going to live forever. How would life be different?